And a Wonderful New Year 2015!
This year has flown by so
quickly, I can hardly believe it’s December. Although I sold the RV in June, I
still did a LOT of traveling throughout the year—basically a trip every other
month. Almost all of the trips were to visit longtime friends and relatives,
the kinds of visits that feel soul-nourishing.
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| with niece, Megan Gaiefsky, Florida |
The first trip, in January, was to Florida to see old friends,
Dinah and Cledith Oakley, in Daytona Beach. I was going to take the RV, but it
wouldn't start (dead battery), so I drove down in my Saturn. Afterwards, I stopped
in to see a niece, Megan Gaiefsky, who lives nearby; her dad, cousin Larry, was
there at the time.
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| WTHS classmates: Larry Wigner, Sue Campbell, Joyce and Dick Eldridge |
During the trip, I also saw a few former high-school
classmates (’54), particularly Suzie and Ray Campbell, who took me around The
Villages where they live, a sort of Disney World for seniors. They invited a
couple of other classmates over for dinner one evening, and we all looked at
old yearbooks and reminisced. I suspect we’re happier now than we were then,
although we were certainly healthier when we were younger!
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| Briana and Blake in front of their home, Idaho Falls |
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| Blake by a mound at Craters of the Moon |
Then in March, I flew to Idaho Falls, ID and spent a week with daughter,
Briana and grandson, Blake, while he was on spring break from high school. He
and I hung out, talked, played games, went to museums, and traveled around the
countryside, including a day-long visit to Craters of the Moon National Park—a
bleak, fascinating landscape.
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| with Carol and Fred Valentine, Harvard Club, NYC |
In June, I took the train to New York City to attend the 50th
wedding anniversary of cousins Fred and Carol Valentine at the Harvard Club. It
was an elegant, congenial event.
While in New York, I spent some time with
daughter, Maria, and grandson, Gabriel.
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| Grandson, Gabe, at park with his mom |
On the way back to Charleston, I stopped in Washington, DC and saw a long-time friend, Art Molella and his wife, Roya. We visited an exhibit on the Smithsonian Museum of American History that Art had curated. While there, I also spent time at the exhibit on Changing America (1863 – 1963), an excellent presentation of the deeply troubled legacy of slavery, emancipation, segregation, and racism in the United States.
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| with Mary and Ed Gaiefsky, Linville, NC |
In August, I spent a week in North Carolina, first visiting cousin Ed
Gaiefsky and his wife Mary, in their lovely cabin in a forest near Linville.
Then I drove down to Lake Lure to meet some West Ashley Unitarian women
friends for a long week-end organized by Marilyn Henderson. During both visits,
we talked, and ate, and saw nearby sights, and, in general, had more fun than
old folks are expected to have. Food is a big fun factor these days.
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| Ellie, Marilyn, Toni, Sue, Linda, Susan, Blowing Rock, NC |
Jacob Heyman-Kantor, the son on one of my long-time best friends, Arlene, was married in September at a lovely retreat in the Berkshire Mountains (MA). I flew up to New York and then drove a rental car to the site of the two day gala, where I met several interesting people. With one of them—a German with a French name, Jean-Baptiste Chuat, I had a long and fascinating conversation about culture and science and media. Had a very pleasant ride back to NYC with Lisa Vergaran, an art-historian friend of Arlene’s.
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| with Arlene Heyman-Kantor and Len Rodberg, MA |
In October, I flew out west, with a first stop in Donna Texas to visit
my brother, Dick. We had a pleasant, quiet couple of days together, including
an afternoon in Mexico. That was my first time on the soil of our
south-of-the-border neighbor-nation.
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| with Sue, Ruthie, Marlene, and Dee, NM |
Afterwards, I spent a week in New Mexico with
a bunch of former Kalamazoo College classmates. Ruthie Williamson, our hostess,
led us through sunny and scenic byways, viewing amazing landscapes and the art it
has inspired (as in the Georgia O’Keefe museum). It was wonderful to see and be
with old friends, and that included a long lunch with a some-time beau.
This month, December, I will be driving to Mt.
Juliet, TN (near Nashville), to visit daughter Elisabeth and her wonderful
family (including three grandchildren) for Christmas.
On the way back, I plan to stop in Conyers, GA, to see
Fran Cameron, the former secretary of my first “boss” in Charleston, Sam
Spicer. My friend Ellie Setser and I both worked in Sam’s lab but at different
times, and we agree that he was a great boss!
So that’s the recap of this
year’s peregrinations. The home front has also been pretty busy, with social
and community groups, church activities, book events, and meals with friends. I've
gotten into a lot of social media activity—email, Facebook, twitter,
LinkedIn—and that has truly become a “time-suck” as they say. Some of it was intended to help me market books, but instead, it has become something of a
personal addiction. I need to find ways to cut way back on online activity so I
can spend more time writing. And organizing! Organizing is always on top of my
to-do list, but it only seems to happen when I’m up against a deadline or I
can’t seem to find something.
As far as writing is concerned,
I've been working on the third revision of a manuscript about understanding the
body and communicating with health-care providers. It’s something I've been writing
and revising for three years now with the help of a group of fellow writers who
are no doubt sick of it, so I’m trying to find other readers for the next
revision. I've also compiled a collection of short stories from pieces written
over the past three decades; that collection was just submitted. Other
stories/articles have been submitted throughout the year. One piece, on names, was
accepted by Persimmon Tree, but it won’t be published until next year.
I miss having the children and
grandchildren nearby, but local friends partially compensate and they're doubtless
less emotionally distracting.
Thank you, my terrific friends and family, for
enriching my life throughout the years. I feel extraordinarily lucky. Hope
your holiday season is or has been joyful.
Best wishes for a wonderful New Year in 2015!
